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Just A Covid Contact, But Treated so indifferently!

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Hi Readers,

I know I should be punctual when it comes to blogging but please blame my laziness for the longest break I took.

To those new readers, let me reintroduce myself. I am Tenzin Choezin and I started this blog back in 2013. I usually review products and sometimes I scribble my thoughts into words here.

Anyway, now without further adieu, let’s begin today’s writing.

The reason I am writing this blog is because, I wanted to share a very personal issue that I recently encountered with. It’s going to be a little long but make sure you read it. How about grabbing a coffee or a tea? Lol..

Okay so, I am an independent entrepreneur and 9-5 is something I have been avoiding my whole life. I always wanted to be my own boss and never wanted to work for or under anyone. But then in 2020, when the nation wide lockdown hit India, it directly affected a lot of companies including mine.

My company “Gurlscloset” is a registered sole proprietorship company which failed drastically during lock down and I have been staying home for the longest time ever since then.

People I am close to often come with different ideas so that I can get out of bed and do something. When ever there are “Job Vacancies” around Mcleodganj, (the place I stay) they make sure to sent the advertisement to me. I usually look through it but a lot of time, I slide away their messages because a lot of the job didn’t meet my interest until one fine day, when my aunt and my best friend sent me a picture of a Job requirement in TIPA.

As a social media influencer myself, this job sounded really interesting to me and for the first time, I felt like this is a 9-5 job I can actually do.

On 5th March 2021, I mailed my resume along with the required documents they asked for.

Days passed by and I was patiently waiting for them to revert back with interview date. And finally on 6th April 2021, they mailed saying they are finally conducting a written and a skill test on 9th April 2021. I was told there will be about 5 applicants, so the next two days, I was busy preparing for the exam.

7th April 2021. Around 10 pm, I was at a friends birthday dinner. A message popped on my WhatsApp from my aunt. “Get away from there, Sonam is positive” I felt a spark down my spine and left the scene.

Sonam is my brother and he has been ill last few days and now he’s tested positive for covid.

Next Morning

It’s the 8th April and I woke up to a call from an unknown number. The girl on the other end said “Hello, Is this Tenzin Choezin? I am calling from Department of Health, you recently had a contact with a covid patient so please self quarantine yourself until further notice”

The first thing that came on my mind is the tomorrow’s exam and I asked her “Oh! I have a job interview tomorrow” and before I completed the sentence she interrupted “I am sorry but you cannot go”

I was furious and decided to call the person in charge of TIPA to tell him about the situation. I asked if they can reschedule my interview or postpone the date because at that very moment, I wanted the job so bad. He said he will let kung-ngo-la ( head) know about it and get back to me. Then a few minutes later, he forwarded me kung-ngo-la’s number.

I then called her!

Lady on the phone- Hello!

Me- Hello Chonzom la, I am Tenzin Choezin, one of the applicant for tomorrow’s job interview. I called to say that I recently had a contact with a covid patient and I was adviced to self quarantine by Department of Health. So I was thinking if there’s an another way to conduct the exam?

Lady on the phone- Oh! I am sorry, Since DOH asked you to self quarantine, You cannot come. We have to listen to their order since TIPA is an organisation.

Me- Oh! Then can I conduct the interview online or can you postpone the date? There must be an alternative.

Lady on the phone- No! Sorry, I cannot postpone, it’s going to be unfair for the other applicants and no! You cannot give the exam online. If you are in NaeleKhang (Quarantine centre) then I would have allowed since there’s going to be govt. staff working there but you are at home, so you cannot. (didn’t make much sense to me)

Me- So there’s no other choice? (By the time I was feeling helpless and was controlling the tears that’s about to fall)

Lady on the phone- Hmmmm…..

Me- Okay! If that’s the case. I will come with my mask on and follow all the covid protocols. May be, you must have an empty room where I can sit and give the exam alone? My home is really near TIPA.

Lady on the phone- Oh no, we don’t have a facility like that. (
what???) Or may be you can come in a PPE Kit and give the exam. She smirked… so I guess she was not being serious. But then she added. Perhaps why don’t you get a rapid test done and come?

Me- Ah!! Okay! I will see if I can get the rapid test done. By that time, its already past 11:00am and zonal hospital won’t do rapid test after 11. (Zonal hospital is a Govt. hospital that does free covid test) I also added, what if I didn’t tell anything in the first place and come? you guys wont know right? But i thought its important to be honest (why in the world did i even think that?)

Lady on the phone- Get the test done at Fortis kangra and then if it’s negative. You can appear.

Me- Ahhh okayyy… Thank you!

“Hung up the phone

I called my aunt and told her the details, she said “Just go, get the test done at a private lab. Wear your mask and do not talk to others. You will get the result in the evening and go directly tomorrow and give the exam. “

The same time, someone from Welfare Office called and told me that I cannot appear for the exam tomorrow. I said “Okay!!” and hung up the phone.

I rode my bike to get the rapid test done and I was told that I will get the result in two hours.

While waiting for the result, I got a call from Welfare Office. The staff was outside my home to give me medicines. I told him I am out for a rapid test. He asked me why I am out when I am suppose to be home for quarantine. I said, I needed the rapid test result for my exam tomorrow.

He said “come back straight and call me before 5, My Kung-ngo-la will scold me if I won’t get your signature after handling the medicine”. I said “Okay” but deep down, I was annoyed. Yet! I let everything slide and was just waiting for the result. (Calls after calls from them made me really weak.)

Shortly after two hours, the Laboratory mailed me the Rapid test result.

It was negative, I screamed in joy and returned home.

Tring Tring……

It was the Coordinator, the guy in charge from TIPA.

Guy in Charge- Hello Choezin, Kung-ngo-la told me to tell you that you cannot appear for tomorrow’s exam. She received a call from Welfare Office and they told her to not allow you for the exam tomorrow and if you come, you should be stopped from entering the premises.(Are these guys incharge of stopping the virus from spreading or incharge of me not appearing for the exam? Wow!!!)

Me(By that time defeated and disappointed) -Okay! Sure!!!!

“Hung up the phone”

I was emotionally broken by the time, I did everything from my end. I was at a really vulnerable situation and they without thinking twice tore my confidence apart. How they handled the whole situation was sheer unethical and incompetent. I didn’t even tell him about the rapid test result, cuz I felt defeated and tortured that very moment.

I understand that in these crazy times of covid, they are concerned and have to do all they could to stop the infection from spreading but guys! I am not positive. I am just a contact. They should atleast have some empathy and think about a solution to this problem first.

Atleast see if there are any other options. How about online? How about letting me sit for the test in an empty room or in an open space? If possible, postpone the test for atleast a day so that I can get my RTPC result. But forget it, nobody even proposed that idea to me. I was asking for it and they didn’t even spend a minute thinking about it.

This experience made me feel that these guys were more concerned about me from appearing for the exam rather than the virus spreading.

If this is how you treat someone who doesn’t have covid, imagine people who has covid and how they are being treated?

Our society seriously need to grow up. One should stop misusing their power. I heard even CTA conducts all their tests online. They even let their staff work from home. I am surpised to see how an esteemed organisation like TIPA (part of CTA) didn’t have any alternatives or a plan B for that matter in such situation. It was so unprofessional.

By the way, meanwhile my aunt had called Delek Hospital the day before to ask the Doctor if there was a way so that I can appear for the test while following the protocols. The doctor then told her that I should request for a virtual test to which ofcourse TIPA refuses from the beginning.

I guess the doctor did realise something the next day and called my aunt saying I can go and sit for the test in an open space with my masks on. it was too late by then. He called 2 hours after the exams started. He said he will talk to the director of TIPA and he did that indeed. He said, perhaps the director will call me now that he talked with her.

And I, with still a hope and some ego waited for the call. Ofcourse, I had by then lost all my interest in working under such administration. My answer was supposed to be “Thank you but I am not interested now”

Well, they never called. what can you expect anyways.

Lesson learnt from this incident- “Never be honest with others, Because I chose to be honest, I was treated this way!

COMMENT DOWN YOUR THOUGHT! And hey, thank you but I am not interested 🙂

56 responses to “Just A Covid Contact, But Treated so indifferently!”

  1. Tenzin Yeshi(bylkop neighbor) Avatar
    Tenzin Yeshi(bylkop neighbor)

    A choezin, We spent short times together but I have known you deep and your honesty. What type of women you are. I see you very talented. And I know and hate too how it is when you talk to people who work in Tibetan govt.its annoying I know.
    You deserve better, god saved you from dealing with these people.
    Thank God.

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  2. Tenzin Yeshi(bylkop neighbor) Avatar
    Tenzin Yeshi(bylkop neighbor)

    A choezin, We spent short times together but I have known you depth and your honesty. What type of women you are. I see you very talented. And I know and hate too how it is when you talk to people who work in Tibetan govt.its annoying I know.
    You deserve better, god saved you from dealing with these people.
    Thank God.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      aww you are so sweet! thank you

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  3. LC Avatar
    LC

    So sorry to hear about this terrible experience Chunz ☹️

    TIPA lost their best candidate for the position. Don’t be discouraged though, there will be better opportunities for you. Lmk if the readers can help in anyway to address this issue to TIPA.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      love you

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    2. Tenzin Avatar
      Tenzin

      Your been through a tough times but it’s ok..tough times always teaches us a good lesson..if there is a will there is a way..no regret..you will get better job than this for sure..one door close and another open..I am sure you will get a better job than this ..this job is not writtin on your forehead .let me know when you get it ..I will congrats you
      Stay away from such a unprofessional organization..
      God bless

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      1. chunztenz Avatar
        chunztenz

        oh wow! thank you so much and yes! you are absolutely right!

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  4. cherryblossomandpastels Avatar
    cherryblossomandpastels

    We need changes in CTA. They are also acting like Indian bureaucracy. If I ever worked in Cta, I will make sure I will help the people to the best of my ability. “ sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck” why waste your talent in a place that doesn’t even appreciate you and doesn’t have the basic human morals

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      aww.. thank you dear, means a ton!

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  5. Tsewanglhamo Avatar
    Tsewanglhamo

    Sorry somehow you have experienced a way worse then we could ever expected by the way be a believer of that quote whatever happen it happened for a better reason. They don’t deserve you dear let’s hope for the way much better opportunities then that so called tipa. God might have a other plan for your future ahead of you. Good luck beautiful human 😉

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      thanks sweety

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  6. Tenzing Nima Avatar
    Tenzing Nima

    They have indeed missed a very capable candidate. Their loss!! Stay strong girl, everything happens for a reason ❤️ Speedy recovery to Sonam 👍🙏

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you so mcuh Nima 🙂

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  7. Tenz dolma Avatar
    Tenz dolma

    God has another plan for u. Never give up ✌️

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  8. Ds Avatar
    Ds

    So sorry to hear that , nobody should have gone through it .. I pray for more interesting offers fly you way in near future and btw It is their lost , you are a very talented women , I appreciate you a lot keep it up . I pray for speedy recovery of cho Sonam

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  9. Woesel Tenzin Avatar
    Woesel Tenzin

    I’m sorry you had to go through this, and I’m sorry for TIPA losing a very potential candidate for the position. Don’t let this experience discourage you from continuing being the honest, skilled, and capable woman you are.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      thank you so much dear, i am doing alot better now:) i just thought it needs to be heard.

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  10. Tenzin sangmo Avatar
    Tenzin sangmo

    It’s ok sis, there are better things coming your way and they are much much bigger and better then this one.
    I love you, wish you best for future 😘

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      aww thank you sweetheart for always being the sweetest!

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  11. Pas Avatar
    Pas

    What a great loss for TIPA. It wasn’t a fair game! I hope you guys are not muddled with any miscommunication. I wish to listen to their narrative as well and make amends.
    Anyways in the year of 2021 with corona dancing on our head….why didn’t they agree to virtual exam. That was it for me!

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  12. Tnzzema Avatar
    Tnzzema

    I’m so sorry that you have gone through such situation.
    Our Society indeed need a drastic change. Specially the mentality and the way they are treating someone.
    Tbh degree and potentials doesn’t even being considered in our society. We need (hook, hook yoe na dik duk) even if want to volunteer in CTA.
    And seriously being one of the family member of covid patient, I was saddened by the way our own neighbor has treated my family.
    The way they degraded and outcasted my family was not at all appreciated.
    Chunzi, I bet TIPA has lost the most potential candidate .
    You go girl , I know you will slay.#girlscloset

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Aww!! I am sorry your family has to go through such situation. But you see, we learn through it.
      And you are absolutely right!

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  13. Pas Avatar
    Pas

    What a great loss for TIPA. It wasn’t a fair game! I hope you guys are not muddled in any miscommunication. I wish to listen to their narrative as well and make amends.
    Anyways in the year of 2021 with corona dancing over our heads….why didn’t they agree to virtual exam. That was it for me!

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Sure, I will love to hear their part too!

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  14. TenzinDatse Avatar
    TenzinDatse

    It is very disheartening to see such act from your own govt. or community. It’s a covid time and they should be prepared to provide alternative. These kind of careless behavior have affected so many people lives in our community. Stay strong and you are capable person!
    Best wishes all time!

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you

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  15. Kalsang Avatar
    Kalsang

    After reading your story I felt the situation that you had during ur needed time.But you did ur best,Actually the way of our society thinking is so naive, Anyway you did ur best n it’s their lost, Maybe God have a greater plan for you n lam rooting for it.My best wishes are always with you chonzin lak.💕

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      exactly! thanks alot for understanding the situation and commenting down here. ❤

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  16. Tenzin Avatar
    Tenzin

    Hi sweetie,
    I’m sorry to hear about that. you did the right thing publishing your experience so that people in power think twice next time.
    #raise your voice for wrongdoings.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      I second that!

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  17. chunztenz Avatar
    chunztenz

    And well, even after testing negative for the RGPT TEST, which is the most accurate covid test, me and my sister law and baby are home, quarantining. Because it’s best to avoid peoples tantrums!
    And I didn’t get it when you said I could have easily presented my Result, wait, consider you in my shoes. After trying everything, when they called to say I will not be allowed inside, and him addressing, try next time for new job vacancies, will you still go on insisting? Where is your self respect Lhamo la? And I said it earlier and I am saying it again, I do not need anyone’s sympathy.

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  18. Choetso Avatar
    Choetso

    Wait!!! How can you assassinate someone in her vulnerable stage? And looks like you are personally related to someone mentioned above. That you ended up writing a while thing up here. Anyways! Leave the space. You have no right to get to someone’s blog and make it dirty. You need to chill and stop making assumptions especially when someone is in a vulnerable stage but may be you do not know! Cuz u are inhuman

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      💜

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    2. Tenzin Lhamo Avatar
      Tenzin Lhamo

      Also to the Choetso person saying to chill, you do realize the seriousness of this virus right? This is a public blog and I have every right to share my opinion. Don’t tell me you expect everyone to just agree with every single blog out there? I will always take out time in my day to respond to what I feel needs to be responded to. And how exactly is my comment inhumane? Do you know the meaning and depth of the word inhumane?

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  19. The writer Avatar
    The writer

    Hi dear, I have read the whole thing. You did the whole thing right. Please be glad that you didn’t give the exam. You aren’t going to work for such environment at all.

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  20. Tenzin yega Avatar
    Tenzin yega

    Yo
    Idk what to say I read from top till the end and I’m speechless i really don’t understand why there have to act this way every thing has a solution if we really care about the thing I guess there disrespected and didn’t value how much the job meant for you I’m really sorry u have to feel this way but I think ur a bold girl just keep in doing things that gives u joy I really appreciate ur boldness I kinda like u in my eyes ur cool now
    I wish u all the luck have a dope life don’t even bother thinking about these stuffs
    Urs
    Made_in_tcv

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you yega la! Means a lot. I decided to write down knowing the criticism’s that will follow. And the hate I will get

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  21. Nyima Avatar
    Nyima

    I can feel your pain. Sorry to hear this but at the same time really proud that you expressed your feelings and shared to world.
    Here too, I had almost same experience like you. The Department under CTA. They really need to put their self in someone else’s shoes…Maybe they(TIPA) they already have someone for the position as their relative that’s why. They don’t have second thoughts about others.
    Any how you deserve much better work than selling TIPA products.
    You go 👧 show your power💯

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you Nyima la

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  22. Tsecha Avatar
    Tsecha

    Dear Chunz,

    Life is full of positive opportunities and for yourself, such a talent you will surely achieve more than some 9-5 TIPA job. It’s their loss and I hope you will come out of the bad experience and make it a part of lesson and forgive yourself and the people involved. I wish you nothing but happiness and prosperity.
    P.S. it was written very well and engaging. Congratulations dr.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you dear

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  23. Tenzin Lhamo Avatar
    Tenzin Lhamo

    Yes, I was agitated because people have been dying from this virus and you were out here saying you should’ve lied about coming into contact with a covid person. I emphasized it twice in my comments that it was Tipa’s lack of planning that was partially at fault and I still completely stand by that. However, if they weren’t able to offer alternatives, then complain just about that instead of bringing in how our “society needs to grow up” and how it’s “unethical.” However I’m giving the benefit of the doubt that since English probably wasn’t your first language, you probably unintentionally misused those words. Also, yes I think you could’ve easily presented your results on the phone when you got back your results cause the reason why they weren’t letting you take the exam was because you were in direct contact and they didn’t know weather you were negative or positive. If you had just told them right then and there that your rapid test came out negative, then I’m pretty sure they would’ve let you come in for the exam. Lastly, if something like this happens to me or my my family, I would definitely blame them institution for their irresponsibility but wouldn’t go out saying I should’ve lied instead of telling the truth. You telling them the truth was the bare minimum. They, in turn, should’ve planned ahead for cases like this.

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  24. Tenzin Lhamp Avatar
    Tenzin Lhamp

    I took the time out to write these long ass comments because although it is your platform to post as you want to, you’re also a semi influencer with a pretty impressive following. And so with that comes a responsibility. You were writing about how you wish you should’ve lied instead of doing the bare minimum of telling the truth or making it seem as if our society is discriminating against covid patients while in actuality it’s just basic protocol. Many people couldn’t even attend their own family’s funeral because of this virus. So if I were to be in your shoes, I would have complained about Tipa’s admin and not go on to blame society for taking caution. Also, I think I would’ve presented the results since they weren’t aware that you were in fact negative and just had to assume you were infected due to direct contact. Anyways hope you have a good day.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you for your comment. I am glad to see that you agree TIPA lacked plan. As for the rest, it all depends on perspectives. My complaint was not against their protocols, it’s against how they deal with such stuffs while following the protocols. Let’s agree to disagree. Thank you for following my page.

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  25. Tenzin Lhamo Avatar
    Tenzin Lhamo

    I’m glad that you also agree with my points! No need to thank me, I will be looking forward to your next posts:)

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  26. Norphel Avatar
    Norphel

    it just a bend not an end…..

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      For real! Thank you though 🙂

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      1. Norphel Avatar
        Norphel

        by the way enjoyed reading your blog

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  27. LC Avatar
    LC

    Chunz has every right to write about her experience and you telling her to stop playing “victim” is just wrong. TIPA needs to give her a fair chance. If you are working there or know someone who is working there i think you should bring this to their attention. Maybe help them so this incident doesn’t happen again in the future. That would be more beneficial than going back and forth here.
    Chunz, everything happens for a reason. You will find something better love

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      💜💜💜

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  28. Ramdom reader Avatar
    Ramdom reader

    Hi Chunztenz, I read your article and thought of dropping my opinions. The place where I am living now has similar rules like what you had gone through. Once we had a close contact with covid, we have to quarantine for 14 days even if you were tested negative on your first test because it takes several days for the virus to show symptoms.we will be monitor everyday and cannot step out of house at all. After completing 2 weeks of quarantine ,if you still test negative than we are free to go out . So I felt that whatever the decision the Department of health has taken was right but they should offer you the plan B and respond promptly with reason why you should not come out from home. My friend had to postpone had internship since she had a contact with a person who tested positive . Had to quarantine for 14 days though she was tested negative in her first test and was cleared to go once she submitted her second covid report after 14 days of quarantine. I wrote this just to make your feel better and realized that you were not treated differently.Hope you will get better job than that.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      true! I do not feel i was treated differently when it comes to covid, but the way how they do not have an alternative kept me wondering. that was the only reason i had to put my thoughts into words. and yea! me n my family are home quarantining even when we tested negative for the rgpt test. we are suppose to stay in and ofcourse we are doing that.
      i still wonder why they didnt conduct it online.

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  29. Tenzinsonam Avatar
    Tenzinsonam

    Chunz Babe….They r bad people…Ignore and ofcourse U will get a way better Job than this shitty job…whole CTA is ruled by a corruptionist so it makes sense that u r ignored so bad despite all these struggles..head up and you’ll never walk alone..ur Liverpool frd❤️ PT IS COMING… WILL WASH ALL THOSE DIRTS….

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you

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  30. Dolma Avatar
    Dolma

    Hey girl, I’m from Australia and it’s the same here. Once we are in contact with a COVID patient, doesn’t matter if it’s direct or indirect, we still have to quarantine for 14 days. No negative test matters. The whole COVID situation is blown out of proportion worldwide and it’s frustrating how fearful people are of people these days. There’s nothing to fear with covid. Vulnerable people die of virus/bacterial infections all the time and there’s no need to lock yourself inside the house. It’s so sad what’s happening in terms of how much people are hurt from these stupid protocols and lockdowns rather than the virus itself.
    Anyway, TIPA should have prepared for this. Allow online examination if it’s something they can organise.they’re probably just lazy but heads up. Better things are coming for you.

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    1. chunztenz Avatar
      chunztenz

      Thank you dolma.
      This has been long gone and dusted but the way the treated will remain imprinted.
      I have moved on. I hope things are better there.
      Thanks for taking our time reading here. Much regards!

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